UNCERTAINTIES

English dictionary defines uncertainties in the following manner,

synonyms:

unpredictability, unreliability, riskiness,  chanciness, precariousness,  unsureness;changeability,  changeableness, variability,  inconstancy, fitfulness,  fickleness "the uncertainty of the future"

But I feel it is a constant feeling which you feel throughout your life in different phases. It brings adrenaline rush in your body. With that, at times you feel passionate, eager, excited, flaming, raging, and zealous, but sometimes you feel hopeless, helpless, desperate, dejected, inferior, incompetent and what not. Life challenges you at every moment. You lose some and win some. All you do is COPE UP with every situation and every challenge which comes your way.

But there is a difference in how people deal with the life-situations. A few take it in a positive manner and rest others crib and cry about it. It’s not necessary that you pass in every exam of your life. And failing is not that bad as we think because sometimes a bumpy road leads to a beautiful destination. So Tarushi doesn’t see the point in cribbing and crying about it. Have you not heard “When life gives you lemon, make lemonade.” It might seem difficult at times, but life unfolds all its secrets and mysteries with its pace and that’s the beauty of it.

It’s beautifully quoted by Mr. Ratan Tata who says, “Ups and Downs are very important to keep us going, because a straight line even in an ECG means we are not alive.”

So, as per Tarushi’s eye view, sometimes it’s okay to fail, it’s okay to fall, it’s okay not to have a desired life, it’s okay to lag behind, it’s okay when all your friends seem to have a perfect life and you still struggling, it’s okay to not get what you always dreamt of BUT what’s not okay is to give up on yourself, it’s not okay to feel hopeless, it’s not okay to leave faith, it’s not okay to feel like a failure. All you need to do is give your emotions a break, just think rationally and take in charge of yourself and your life and get going. All the analysis of failure and success should be done when you are on your deathbed and looking at all the achievements and failures because at that time you will not see yourself as a failure but as a man who has lived life fully without caring about UNCERTAINTIES and appreciated it.

Na Kisi Se Irshya...

ना किसी से ईर्ष्या,

(Jealousy from no one)

ना किसी से कोई होड़,

(Competition from no one)

मेरी अपनी मंजीले,

(I have my own destination)

मेरी अपनी दौड़!!

(I have my own race)

Few days back a friend of mine sent these lines to me which totally changed my perspective to see life. It often happens to us that we compare ourselves or our lives with someone really successful. And the definition of success is different for everyone. Success can be a good career, earning more money, a loving relationship, good health or anything. While comparing we feel ourselves to be very less therefore feel depressed. Which I feel is such a wrong attitude towards life. My mother says that one should be always thankful to god for all the wonderful things He has given to us otherwise He will think that He is giving you so much and you are still not happy, which will make Him unhappy.

We should always keep this in mind that everyone has altogether different journey and is sent by god to earth with a unique purpose. So are you, here with a unique purpose. Just give this thought a second and you will be all sorted. God has distributed equal happiness and sorrows to each one of His child. Life is about moving on and doing what is required the most. One or more failures can never be an end to anyone’s life. Because every black cloud has a silver lining and your best time is about to come.

Never doubt yourself because you are the one who can achieve that purpose, just see it for yourself.

So as per Tarushi’s eye view feeling of jealousy and tendency to compare should hold no significance in our lives. Just feel happy about other people for their success and learn from them and get going because you can’t stop chasing your life’s purpose till your last breath, period

Think Big and Implement

While reading the book “Magic of Thinking Big” by David J. Schwartz I realised how thinking big can positively help people achieve their goal. But one thing which is very important apart from thinking big is to implement. What if we always make plans and never initiate them or never implement them? Everything you plan needs hard work because just thinking big will not make you the king or queen. You have to work hard for what you want to achieve in life.
Suppose you are sitting and thinking about a business plan which actually has a great potential. But you just drew it on paper and never worked towards it or never initiated it and few years flew by. And now you are old and regretting what if I worked towards it then my life would have been different. Do you want to regret not working towards your big world - changing thinking? What if Dhirubhai Ambani never executed his business plan, Sachin Tendulkar never held a cricket bat, Amitabh Bachan never ever faced a camera and all of them just dreamt about it and never worked towards it? So according to Tarushi’s eye view you can’t achieve anything you dream by just thinking big about it, you have to implement it.