Na Kisi Se Irshya...

ना किसी से ईर्ष्या,

(Jealousy from no one)

ना किसी से कोई होड़,

(Competition from no one)

मेरी अपनी मंजीले,

(I have my own destination)

मेरी अपनी दौड़!!

(I have my own race)

Few days back a friend of mine sent these lines to me which totally changed my perspective to see life. It often happens to us that we compare ourselves or our lives with someone really successful. And the definition of success is different for everyone. Success can be a good career, earning more money, a loving relationship, good health or anything. While comparing we feel ourselves to be very less therefore feel depressed. Which I feel is such a wrong attitude towards life. My mother says that one should be always thankful to god for all the wonderful things He has given to us otherwise He will think that He is giving you so much and you are still not happy, which will make Him unhappy.

We should always keep this in mind that everyone has altogether different journey and is sent by god to earth with a unique purpose. So are you, here with a unique purpose. Just give this thought a second and you will be all sorted. God has distributed equal happiness and sorrows to each one of His child. Life is about moving on and doing what is required the most. One or more failures can never be an end to anyone’s life. Because every black cloud has a silver lining and your best time is about to come.

Never doubt yourself because you are the one who can achieve that purpose, just see it for yourself.

So as per Tarushi’s eye view feeling of jealousy and tendency to compare should hold no significance in our lives. Just feel happy about other people for their success and learn from them and get going because you can’t stop chasing your life’s purpose till your last breath, period